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sticks and stones fallacy

Let's retire the saying that sticks and stones can break bones, but words can't hurt. My first broken bone is a faint memory, yet hurtful words lingered, shaping my inner dialogue for years.


A few years ago, I made a New Year's resolution that changed my life: I never keep a sincere compliment to myself. If it's genuine, I never hesitate to share a compliment.


Never underestimate the power of words to impact someone's life.

 
 
 

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