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The Means Is Not The End. Here's What You Actually Need

A powerful reminder, paraphrased from Mark Manson:


You don’t need your job. You need income that makes you feel secure.

You don’t need a partner. You need to feel loved, safe, and seen.

You don’t need to be popular or perfect. You need to feel respected and valued.


It’s easy to confuse what we have or want with what we truly need.


Jobs, relationships, and status are just vehicles. The real goal is the emotion they help us feel.

 
 
 

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