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the most powerful force in our personality

May 7, 2024
1 min read

...is our need to be consistent with who we believe we are.


At some point, we freeze into an identity and think: "This is who I am...this is how people like me behave."


When exactly did you decide who you were? Is this identity still serving you and those you love?

 
 
 

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